A little angry

Yes Smash, she is ignorant, but she's intelligent so that makes it worse.  It's almost like she says and does things sometimes to see what it does to me.  She's the one that returned clothes to me (after I told her to pass them on to someone else) because they said things on them like "Daddy's Girl" or "Cute" or whatever.  She didn't want her baby to "get a complex".  But I guess returning the clothes to me provided her a way to let me know that I'm a shitty mom and she's a fantastic one because she doesn't dress her child the way I dress mine, uh? 

There are two girls at church who are pregnant and I'm having a baby shower for them.  She got pissed off about that too.  I'm feeling just total ugliness about the whole thing and don't want to invite her.  She tried to schedule the church sponsored shower (which she is hosting) on the same day as my shower.  She called me a while ago and said that since I was hosting a joint shower for the two girls that she didn't think I wanted to help plan the church sponsored one.  Well she was right because if SHE is sponsoring it (or involved) I'm better off not being involved.  Anyway, they will not be on the same day and I will make sure I'm out of town for her event.  grrrrrrr

She told someone at church that my house is dirty and that she doesn't like to bring her baby over here.  My house might be chaotic, but it is NOT dirty.  I guess because I'm not Ms. Perfect with everything in place like a museum that she thinks it's dirty.  I can't wait until her kid starts walking and breaking everything.  another grrrrrrr

Yeah, so I'm angry.  But I'm thinner than she is .. and not pregnant again... and about to start a really great internship :)  hehe